The Importance of Co-Education
November 28, 2025
Amber Scott, our Equity, Diversity and Inclusion Officer and Head of Pupil Personal Development, reflects on the importance of co-education in addressing issues faced by girls and young women, and boys and young men in today's society:
"Over the past week, two important events have taken place that some may see as being slightly dissonant, International Men’s Day and the UN Day for the Abolition of Violence Against Women. The events fall only six days apart, and this year, Norwich School pupils came together to mark both with a shared, united message. Prefects working on initiatives for boys and young men, and those focusing on girls and young women, collaborated throughout the week, recognising that the issues are not separate or competing, but intertwined with one another.
Each year, Norwich School hosts a Reclaim the Night vigil in honour of the UN Day. During the event, pupils share speeches and poetry that call for an end to misogyny and gender-based violence. This year’s vigil saw boys and girls standing side by side, listening and sharing powerful messages around gender equity and challenging misogyny. In the run up to this event, our International Men’s Day assembly highlighted the idea that celebrating masculinity in all its forms also has to involve taking responsibility for the actions of men and building a society where misogyny is always challenged, and a direct call was made for boys and young men to attend the upcoming Reclaim The Night Vigil.
This link between events made something very clear, in order to instil lasting cultural change, we need buy in from everyone. When we have boys and girls working together, we acknowledge that Women’s rights cannot advance in a silo, and boys and young men must have space to listen, reflect, and speak up too. The issues facing young women are intrinsically linked with the pressures facing young men. One cannot be addressed meaningfully without the other. Coalition is key.
Co-education makes this coalition tangible. Co-educative spaces are powerful tools for change and growth, empowering girls to speak to their true experiences, and enabling boys to listen and share, without judgement or shame. Shared understanding, shared advocacy, and the recognition that equality is a collective effort is the only way to move forward. When boys and girls learn together, speak together and stand together, the message is stronger and the call for change is louder."















