Remembering a Norwich School Hero

November 8, 2024

Jonathan Pearson, the school’s Development Director and Old Norvicensian 78-87 gives his perspective on a “Norwich School hero” at this time of Remembrance…..


"Good morning, everyone. Norwich School can seem a bit quirky at times, but I view that as a positive. Have you ever wondered why things are named the way they are? I am sure those who joined this term may well have questioned who was the Fleming of the 1950’s Fleming Building – maybe Ian Fleming, the writer of James Bond books for example? Are the Dyers of Dyers’ Lodge still alive or are the Dyers dead? Did Coke (as in Coke House) invent a fizzy drink and who or what is a Valpy? Of course, being Development Director, you would rightly expect me to know the answers, so, do collar me in the playground or the lunch queue if you want to know more.

It would be a fair assumption that many unfamiliar names relate to people of great merit who have strong connections to the schools’ illustrious past. I would like to share the details of one whose name you may have heard, but you will likely have no idea who he is or know nothing of his remarkable story. I want to put that right today and this is the theme of today’s assembly.


To start our story, let me take you back to the height of World War II and to the jungles of Burma (now known as Myanmar). At the base of a deep thicket a young officer Philip has been very badly wounded and lies dying. In his head he wonders what will get him first: infection from his wounds; starvation or dehydration; or, even worse, being discovered by Japanese enemy soldiers patrolling these jungles looking for British soldiers to dispatch on sight. There is a rustle in the nearby bushes and a face appears through the undergrowth. Philip realizes in that moment that his life hangs by the slenderest of threads.


Fortune though is smiling on him, as this is a local Burmese Rifleman Maung Tun, who immediately grasps the urgency of the situation, tends Philip’s injuries, provides him with sustenance and care. A friendship develops between Philip and Maung Tun, whom Philip nicknames ‘Mo To’ for short. This continues for some while and Philip recuperates, when, suddenly, visits from Mo To stop and Philip is perplexed. Only later does he discover that Mo To had been captured by the Japanese and tortured to reveal the whereabouts of British troops in the vicinity. Refusing to give up information about Philip’s hiding place, Mo To is cruelly tortured to death. Philip struggles all his life to understand what compelled a virtual stranger to sacrifice his own life for Philip’s, and this profoundly moves him.


Philip recovers, but later in the war he is captured by the Japanese who incarcerate him in one of their brutal prisoner of war camps. Two years of subsequent torture and privation, of waterboarding and starvation, and the death of many of his comrades are poignantly captured in this book, his autobiography: Return via Rangoon. It is a heart-breaking account and was republished last year to celebrate 80 years since that military campaign. I cannot recommend this moving read highly enough.


I now fast-forward to autumn 1977 when I first met Philip. Of course, I did not call him Philip at the time - after all he was the Headmaster of Norwich School. He was known as ‘Mr Stibbe’. I was being interviewed by him to join Norwich School as a pupil. At the end of World War II, Philip Stibbe returned to his studies at Merton College, Oxford. They had kept the same room waiting for him that he had left in 1940 when he joined up – a lovely touch. He subsequently moved into teaching and his last post was as Headmaster at Norwich School from 1975 until 1984.


Following periods of financial hardship and national austerity, the Norwich School he inherited could at times be a grim and sombre place. Philip’s moving experiences in Burma had instilled in him a formidable sense of love for humanity and compassion towards others – both of which are central to today’s Norwich School. It is not to say they did not exist before his time, but it was Philip Stibbe who made such a positive effort to reflect love and compassion in the culture and everyday experiences here at school.


I have two examples. Feeling sorry for the meagre rations at lunch in the 1980s, he petitioned the Bursar and was successful in increasing food portion sizes, especially on Fridays when the number of fish fingers was increased by one on each plate, earning him the nickname of Four Fish Fingers Phil. More profoundly, the second relates to his increasingly frail health. Years of starvation rations had irreparably weakened his constitution and brought about the onset of the debilitating condition known as Parkinson’s Disease, causing him to retire early. At a time when pupil relations with teachers were often distant and subservient, at the end of his last ever assembly in this Cathedral I recall him warmly shaking the hand of every boy as they left through the great west doors. I was moved that he knew my name and wished me well with a tear in his eye. Recently I discovered that on his death he committed his body to medical research, allowing them to assess the impact of his war-time privations.


When I returned in 2018 to work at Norwich School, I was overjoyed to learn that Stibbe Awards in his honour are handed out each term. This is a Stibbe Tie and Pin, given to those of exceptional ability and application across more than one co-curricular discipline, for example taking a lead role in a musical whilst also leading a charitable initiative. It is effectively awarded as co-curricular full colours. Only a select few Sixth Formers ever attain this high accolade.


I first met Philip Stibbe’s son in 2023, having been invited by him to the re-launch of Philip’s book Return Via Rangoon. Retired Major Giles Stibbe, OBE, Director of the Household Cavalry Foundation, is himself a decorated veteran of many conflicts over the last 40 years. Giles was thrilled to learn his father is still celebrated through the Stibbe Awards and his legacy lives large at Norwich School today. I am delighted that Giles has accepted my invitation to be with us in assembly this morning. He is also (and I mean this as the highest compliment) the spitting image of his father when I first met him.


To conclude my address, if you see anyone round school wearing one of these ties or pins, do ask them how they earned their Stibbe Award. I hope you to will be inspired by their stories and aspire to receive this accolade yourself one day. To those wearing a Stibbe Award today, Giles and I salute you. You will have made an important mark on the school through your sterling efforts and continue to make Norwich School a better place. It is interesting to note that among the cohort of Stibbe recipients in school at present, is our very own Mr Gent who, as a schoolboy here, was one of its first ever recipients.


So, in this building that Philip loved so much and where he finished his Norwich School career, let us consider the courage, humbleness and lifelong compassion of Philip Stibbe and, at this time of Remembrance, reflect on the astonishing act of sacrifice of Mo To in 1943, the Burmese soldier who laid down his life for his fellow man.

Let us now give all Stibbe Award Holders a well-deserved round of applause."


By Eleanor Lewis July 14, 2025
Friday 4 July, Independence Day in America, happened to be a memorable day of independence for some of our community, as it heralded the last day of school for our Upper Sixth pupils. And it wasn’t just the pupils sharing this special day – parents and guardians were welcomed to the Close to share in the celebrations. Some pupils had been through the entire Norwich School journey, reflecting on 11 years growing up in the Close, whilst others had experienced a packed and exciting two year Norwich School journey, having joined in Sixth Form. Whatever the ‘length of service’, however, the mixed emotions amongst leavers were shared – excitement for the future, sadness and trepidation as such an important chapter of their lives drew to a close, pride at having reached such a milestone and a touch of exhaustion at the end of such an important academic year. A beautiful sunny day dawned, with an early breakfast for the pupils and a special address from the President of the Horatio Society, Jacob Stevenson, who wished his peers well and encouraged them to embrace their new status as Old Norvicensians (ONs). Jacob also handed out awards as voted for by the pupils themselves including, to name but a few, Most Likely to Start A Charity, Best Bromance, Most Likely to Headline Glastonbury and Most Likely to End Up Back at Norwich School (an easy win for Joel Newman who returns next year as a Lower School Gap Student!). They then headed to tutor group where they were presented with their Valedictory Reports – as written by their Head of House and the Head. Parents and Guardians then joined the celebrations for a brunch on the Refectory lawn before filing into the Cathedral for a very special Farewell Assembly. It was hard to spot a dry eye as parents and pupils joined in singing I Vow To Thee My Country and Jerusalem, and the Head delivered a moving and inspirational address. The congregation were then upstanding and clapped continuously as the Upper Sixth filed out of the Cathedral for the very last time, exiting the West Doors, where they were greeted with a farewell and handshake from the Head. The Upper Close was buzzing as families reunited with one another, hugging and crying as they shared the emotion of such a significant day. Overall, however, despite the tears, it was a day for celebration – to toast a job well done to the Class of 2025 who gave it their all and embraced every opportunity on their Norwich School journey. Corks popped and there were photos a-plenty as families embraced a last chance to take pictures in the Norwich School uniform, before departing for perhaps a rest or a power nap, before dressing in their finest and heading for Norwich City Football Club for the Leavers Ball.  Over 300 parents, staff and pupils attended a magnificent evening, with a sumptuous three course meal, entertainment and a live band which kept everyone on the dancefloor until 1am. There was an after party, but we will leave it at that…! Wishing the Class of 2025 every success for the future and stay in touch. Remember. You are all ONs for life!
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By Eleanor Lewis July 10, 2025
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By Sonja Mitchell July 9, 2025
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By Eleanor Lewis July 9, 2025
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By Eleanor Lewis July 4, 2025
It is great for the school to get to this point, the final assembly of the 24/25 year and a joy to share it with the parents of our Upper Sixth cohort who leave today. It is a personal privilege to have the chance to offer some reflections at a time which is laced with resonance for so many. Such occasions bring experiences and memories into enhanced focus. This has been much on my mind since the announcement a few weeks ago that the world’s most powerful digital camera has started producing its first images as part of a 10 year project to survey space and time. Situated at the Vera C Rubin observatory in the Chilean Andes to minimise light pollution, the camera is 1.65m by 3m, weighs 2,800kg and has three mirrors which are between 3.4m and 8.4m in diameter. It is hard to relate to these dimensions, so try this: it has 3,200 megapixels, making it 67 times more powerful than the camera of an iPhone 16 Pro; its resolution allows it to capture a golf ball on the moon and its detail is such that one would need 400 Ultra HD TV screens to display a single image. More relevantly for the project, its first image shows gas and dust clouds swirling 9,000 light years from earth. We may not have this precision in our own phones, but our senses and memories have an uncanny ability of capturing moments of particular significance; people even report time seeming to slow down at important moments. There is much for the senses to feast on in this last Cathedral service of the year so take moments during the service to take in and savour your surroundings: the sun streaming in from the South-West to light up swirling dust motes and the colours of the stained-glass windows; the gorgeous sounds from the Choir and congregation; the distinctive smell of this ancient building; and the cool touch of its aged stones. Just don’t lick anything please – 4th Form, that is the one sense we are not going to be trying out. We could not have this sensitivity to the world around us all the time; we would never get anything done. However, it pays to zoom in from time to time and the Cathedral provides just such a chance. As I reflect on recent weeks, my internal camera can pick out many images which have stuck with me: Bandfest, with 14 electric guitars all playing at once; The extraordinary detail in the jewellery films from the Fashion Show or the exquisite sketchbooks of our U6 in the Art and Design Exhibition; Redmayne packed with junior and intermediate cricketers or Lower Close packed with athletes in a vivid kaleidoscope of house colours; My favourite moment, not for the first time, came at the end of June from Discover Your Ability Day which the school hosts for the charity, Able2B. Frankly, if you were there and had spent time building your athlete partnership, you will know why this often wins my round-up and may well have your own special memory. For me, it was not the moment when the athlete pairs cross the line, heart-melting though that is, it was the hug that a girl with impaired physical mobility shared with her Norwich School pupil partner away from the finish line when the spectators’ gaze had moved on. A simple treasure. Yet a service like this allows us to do something else in common with the Vera C Rubin camera. That telescope deals with such vast distances that the light is from a different era. Our time-travel is rather different but no less potent. Today represents for all of us a significant punctuation mark, the end of the academic year. It is particularly so for our Upper Sixth because it is the end of their time at Norwich School. It will not be long before they process out of the West Doors to our applause as they leave to take up their places in the wider world. There should be some looking back, hopefully with enjoyment, certainly some pride, perhaps a dose of embarrassment at a dodgy 5th Form haircut or questionable dance moves at someone’s 18th. Yet I should also like you to try to consider what still lies ahead. In her talk to the Norfolk Cambridge Society this term Professor Gillian Tett, the Provost of King’s College Cambridge, referred to Steve Jobs’ famous 2005 Stanford Commencement Speech where he said that you cannot join dots forwards, only backwards. His advice to the students was to keep making dots and I advocate the same now. By way of example, I should like to return to someone I mentioned to the school at this morning’s assembly, our retiring Vice-Chair of governors, Stephen Bamber. He shared something of his life-journey when he gave out the prizes to the Lower School this term. A classicist by training, he secured a place as a Civil Servant at the Foreign Office but was told to gain some life experience before taking up his place. He decided to join the army and became a Platoon Commander, taking in tours of duty in Northern Ireland during the Troubles. By the time he finished his military commission, he returned not to the Foreign Office but was drawn to medicine, so back to learning he went before becoming a GP for some 30 years. His route to Norwich School governorship came through his own children’s time here as pupils. Looking backwards, one can see exactly how the range of experience has made Stephen such a wise and valuable governor, but if our Head of Careers, Mrs James, were to predict such a career for any of our current U6th I suspect there would be bewilderment; Stephen’s life can hardly be described as following a plan. You can only join the dots up looking backwards, so as you make your way through life, particularly while you are of school age or an 18 year-old about to leave, just keep making dots. And what dots should one make? Again, as a classicist who retrained in medicine, I think Stephen’s life story is instructive: he has always been curious to learn more and has not been afraid of putting his mind to different areas of study. This brings to mind the delightful story of the cellist, Pablo Casals. He practised every day, even after retirement. When asked why, he replied “because I think I’m making progress”. His age at the time? He was 90. Upper Sixth, take a moment to look backwards and join the dots of your school career, the moments which have moulded you into the fine young men and women I see in front of me: your A Level subject choices, your role in that play, your part in that school team, the time you first met your best friend. But remember how many dots there still are to make. Keep doing so, even if you are not sure how they will join up. That will be for another moment of focus. As you get ready to leave, please know that we have loved your presence in our community. You have been a strong sporting year-group and you have given us countless creative triumphs. You have also helped the wider community and been a close-knit support group for each other. If we have got it right, we have not been a hothouse for you but we have been a greenhouse, nurturing you as sensitive plants to develop healthily through setting the right overall conditions for your overall growth. Go out in the world with a lifelong love of learning to be forces for good in the wider community. And do stay in touch from time to time to let us know what you find. You leave with best wishes from us all.
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